UNEX Tales of People Crossing Over - Evidence of Our Friends/Family in the After Life

[Raggedyman]

I experienced an incredibly huge revelation regarding a post I made to this thread way back in NOVEMBER of 2019. I wanted to share it here because I found the striking similarities between MY experience and the experiences of my SIL regarding the individual discussed in that post to be incredible, as well as reaffirming the realities of the afterlife.

yesterday I was working outside - and as is my habit, I was listen to a radio program I'd recorded for just that purpose. in this case it was a COAST to COAST program dated 3.13.22 featuring Raymond Moody, MD and another fellow William Peters. for those who may be interested and have a subscription, or may be able to find it else where on line, the program is here:Shared Crossings / Biblical Prophecy & Ukraine | Coast to Coast AM this program dealt with the topic of "Shared Crossings" - in other words, the phenomenon of the "SHARED DEATH EXPERIENCE"

in listening to this program I came to the realization that what both my SIL and myself had with "Joe" was in actuality a "SHARED DEATH EXPERIENCE". I found that to be very significant because although I was several hundred miles away from "Joe" as he transitioned and the experiences of both myself and my SIL were ~ 12-14 hrs hours apart, they occurred as the individual was actively transitioning and both of us were in the dream state. the STRIKING SIMILARITIES of those dreams
(here: UNEX - Tales of People Crossing Over - Evidence of Our Friends/Family in the After Life) IMHO lend considerable credibility and insight into not only the reality of SDE but the fact that some form of communication passed between the three of us. the environment we both found Joe in during our experiences also provides insight regarding BOTH the incredibly peaceful fashion in which we DO pass as well as the beauty that awaits us on the other side. Joe passed with ALS - a terrible way to die - yet I found him at peace and resting comfortably. I think it important to mention that as well here becasue I've both read and been told that if things becom e to difficult for us during transition, we simply leave our bodies until its "our time" to leave here. I can see now that's exactly what had happened with Joe.

I was blessed by what I learned from this particular Coast program as I recalled the experience and realized the profound significance of what it ACTUALLY WAS. Moody had said in the above program that it was possible to "facilitate" the likelihood of having an SDE experience; that they often occurred when there were things that needed to be communicated. that was EXACTLY what transpired in this instance.

I wanted to share this with all of you here as I believe it further CONFIRMS THE EXISTENCE of an AFTERLIFE - which is actually what we're after here on this thread. accounts of NDE's (near death experiences) and SDE's (shared death experiences) as well as visitations (dreams, encounters, objects, demonstrations etc) of family and friends that have pased over and are returning with messages for us.

 

[et2]

I've read that we choose our circumstances and our parents before we arrive here - that we plan with our soul group what we will share and experience - we make soul contracts . . . perhaps this is a bit of evidence C

thanks for sharing this interesting experience with us

On the parents … yeah … that didnt work out so well . Now grandparents and wife … 100%. They made up triple what the parents should have been. I needed it.

 

[Raggedyman]

we sat with Raggedyanns mother this week - she passed on 4.21.22. having turned 88 on 1.5.22. she'd been house bound for the past 4 years and on hospice care for the past 18 MO. she'd been on10L of O2 consistently for a number of years even before that.

about 10 days before she passed she told one of the care givers that she'd seen my FIL in the bed room (he passed in 07) and on another occasion a few days later, that he'd made her a sandwich and brought it to her. in the mid afternoon on the 20'th despite being essentially non responsive to either of us over the prior 36 hrs, while lying in bed she raised her hands straight to the ceiling and smiled, holding them up that way for a brief while.

her son and DIL arrived from FL. late in the evening of the 20'th; she remained non responsive. on the morning of the 21'st at the suggestion of hospice, it was decided and agreed between us, that we'd begin to increase her morphine and gradually taper her O2 by 2L every 2 hrs. that begun at noon. when she got down to 2L she held comfortably for a period of about 4 hours - much longer than was anticipated by hospice. at the time she passed, roughly 9:45P, I had just left to let dogs out; the DIL and Raggedyann were in the kitchen making coffee and her son was in another bedroom. MIL left when no one was present at her side. I believe she made that choice and waited to be "alone" at the time.

after I got the call, as I was returning to the house I had a very vivid memory of her and FIL walking the beach in Captiva fishing for snook in the shell trough - something they'd done very frequently many years ago. immediately after that I though of her being greeted by her all of the dogs she'd lost when she crossed. when I got back to the house DIL handed me a cup of coffee and out of the blue began to recant a "dream" she'd had the week previously - well before any of us knew that MIL was about to take the downturn that would ultimately lead to her transition. in the dream which she said was extremely vivid, she saw MIL and FIL standing on the beach in Captiva holding hands their backs to the water, each holding a spinning rod. they turned and walked to the shore line and began walking along and fishing the shell trough just as they'd done in the past. she said there there were several dogs running along the beach with them and although she couldn't see any of us the impression was that we were all there together.

that dream was essentially exactly what I'd thought about as I was returning to the house. the DIL had dreamed this 7-10 days prior to MIL falling ill and had just recanted - unsolicited - essentially exactly what I'd been thinking moments before my arrival.

this morning we held a small ceremony out on her back porch overlooking the dairy farm and pastures about a mile away. there were about 10 of us present. it was a beautiful warm sunny day. she loved her birds and she'd loved that view and often sat out there. this morning there were two beautiful red cardinals that showed up and sat in the trees near the porch. they flitted about but stayed durring the entire service. when it was over, they left and didn't return.

 

[Pinecone]

Condolences to your family. Thank you for sharing the experience of her passing with us.

 

[Chance]

Hello RM,



What a blessed reunion 'over there'!

My cousins told me they spent days sitting by their father's bed waiting for that 'moment'. They decided to grab a quick lunch and while they were out for that short time, their father left. I've heard this before many times...they'll often leave when family has stepped away...maybe it's easier on them. On family. Maybe we will experience this ourselves one day...or maybe we can ask them...why did you leave when I was not by your side??

Your 'vivid memory' and your DIL's dream reminded me of my mental pictures of Banshee and Phantom on the beach - for many, many years after they had gone, I pictured them in my mind ...and then a friend gave me paintings of two German Shepherds on the beach - just like I pictured they would be.

You wrote about your MIL's husband appearing to her a couple of times and then her raising her hands up to the ceiling and smiling - sometime before she died. I have no doubt her husband came back to her...maybe to show her passing over is OK and she'll be with him and I believe she saw something amazing. My FIL 'woke' from a two week long coma to say "Can't you see all the pretty angels?" And then he died.

Thank you for sharing these stories. There are so many similar.

Just amazing!

I heard that 'coincidence' read backwards in Hebrew is "God allowed it".

Chance

 

[wintery_storm]

Raggedyman:
Condolences. But I have a good feeling she is in a very happy place. Her crossing sounds so much like my Moms with my dad coming to be with my Mom before she past.

 

[wintery_storm]

I never wrote about my last experience with my Grandmother whom had Leukemia .

Nana was in her 80's when her time came. She was bedridden at my sisters house. My sister called the family and said she did not think she would make the night and we all should come and be with her.

So we all were there with her. She knew everyone but would get disoriented. But as the evening were on she was seeing things we could not. She had told my sister there were black demons flying about her .

My sister said" Nana do not go with them!"
She said" Oh no I won't".

Nana passed shortly after that. As for her life story. She was Christian but could be a nasty lady at times.

I do not know if demons always come around to try and grab the dying. But my father said he saw the Devil when he Coded. So I am guessing when we pass we may have to deal with evil and get away. Hopefully loved ones are there to help us along.

 

[dioptase]

So sorry for your loss, Raggedyman.

 

[LeViolinist]

Raggedyman, thanks for sharing the poignant signs of their reunion. I love watching the cardinals, and have often seen the male tending and feeding the female. They mate for life. RaggedyAnn's mother is home now. Praise our Father!

 

[evenso]

Raggedyman, thanks for sharing the poignant signs of their reunion. I love watching the cardinals, and have often seen the male tending and feeding the female. They mate for life. RaggedyAnn's mother is home now. Praise our Father!

Thank you RM for sharing your experience with us. I think things like your DIL's dream coinciding with your thoughts are things the Lord does for us all the time. I call them little love gifts of assurance from the Father.

My SIL who was a stoic and harsh at times, who had been in a coma for days, just before she passed, raised her arms and face toward the ceiling and very softly said, "Mommy!" and was gone.

About demons circling us at the end, since Satan is the prince of the power of the air, I wonder if we might for a split second traverse that "air" where they abide and "see" them? But if we are sealed with the Holy Spirit, we have nothing to fear about that short trip. We are in Christ and can't be touched!

 

[Mary Contrary]

Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. It will always hurt for you as you will always be his Mother.

I think is around love now and that is what he needed. Our world is filled with so many rules, so many obstacles and not everyone is strong enough to cope. I know I was not at 16.

You can not bring your son back but you can always love him and talk with him as if he is in the room with you. While we are think Heaven is in the sky. It could just be another dimension between ours.

I do not feel it is fair you could not find out where he is buried. I would reach out to a State Congressman or Senator and appeal to them with a heartfelt letter.
Prayers, Love and Hope.

aww thanks. I always remember what happened when he was a baby at one. He got his first DPT shot and that night got very sick with a high fever and convulsions. I was laying on the floor tending to him. He kept talking to someone and saying over and over: "NO, I wanna get OUT!!"

Over the years I think he wanted to leave his body and die cuz before he came here God must have shown him that he was gonna live a hard life....drugs....and his dad leaving him when he was only one. He had a hard life.

I was poor, but he never starved. I used to clean houses. When he was ten I became a topless dancer in bars. I made real good money. I was 28 and danced till I was 48 cuz I've always looked younger than I am. So he never saw his dad again. He talked to him on the phone twice....

I promised to write Tuesday but I wanted to talk to my son to get the facts straight before writing my next story.
Today is my 63rd birthday so I got to speak with both my children and my younger brother and we talked about the experiences we had gone through that I am writing about here. So today was a good day.
I hope you do not mind my stories as this is the first time I have put them in print from memory.

#4.
Evil.
As my last story stated, I was dealing with sleep issues. I did not know back then it was sleep paralysis. I actually thought I was being attacked by a demon in the house as I slept. As a teen I used the Ouija board in the Attic of my parents home, many a times with my cousins for fun. My church always said that the Ouija board opened up a door for evil spirits to entire our world. Maybe an evil spirit attached itself to me and followed me to my new home with my husband?

When my children where 3 and 6 I went to work part time. There grandparents cared for them when I was gone.

This story takes place on a sunny summer day that was warm. I had picked the children up from their grandparents house and went home. I was very tired My daughter wanted watch TV and my son asked if he could go up to the finished attic to play. My husband and I had made the Attic a Playroom. It was really pretty and decorated for young children. And since it was a small house it was the only room we could use as a playroom. I told my son fine. I told the children I was going to my room to lay down for a little while.

I was resting on the bed for a while and I hear a loud yell .It was my husband. He was yelling "Get back inside!"
I jumped out of bed and panicked. I knew what it meant. My son was up in the Attic and the window somehow was open!

I ran up, my daughter behind me and then my husband. . My son was sitting on the windowsill smiling . I pulled him off . My husband and I hugged him.

We asked him why did he open the window. He said he did not open it. I know I had the windows locked. I closed the window and we went down to the first floor. All shaken. I asked my daughter if she went up to the 3rd floor and opened the window and she said no.

So again I asked my son if he opened the window as there was no explanation of how it could be open. He said "No he did not that his sister did."

I looked at her and she said: she was not even up in the attic she did not do it".

So all these years I never was sure what happened and thought maybe my daughter opened the window and was to frightened to say.

But years later as they became adults we talked about it again and just today on my Birthday I again spoke with them about it and they are now 38 and 41 so neither has reason to lie to me. My daughter said she was never up in the Attic she was watching TV but did hear Her Dad yell and me Yell to her brother.

My son told me that it was his sister who opened the window but it WAS NOT HIS SISTER and was something that made itself look like his sister and opened the window and coaxed him to the open window too sit on the edge and look out.
He said he knew it was not his sister when he saw me, his sister and dad all ran up the stairs of the Attic to get to him together.

So something in that house wanted to kill my son. But someone brought my husband home just in time to walk along side of the house and look up and see my son who was looking down saying " Hi Daddy".

It does not matter what religion you are or if you do not believe in any religion . I feel there is Evil trying its best to come after all of us from time to time. I also believe God the father and his Angels look after us. Because on that day an Evil entity wanted to take my son and almost did.

Some how , someway God helped my family that day. I am a believer because of what has taken place in my life. There are no other explanations other than Good verses Evil.

Wow that is creepy scary like what you see in the movies!

 

[MaryLu]

Thank you all for sharing. My son passed unexpectedly late July. While I didn’t have any contact with him, a friend did and passed on messages, things she had no way of knowing. It was very comforting. This friend has also let me know about my niece (passed 10 days before my son) and my mom (passed 4 years ago).

My husband is in his last months, maybe less, battling cancer. A few nights ago he told me our cat, one that had passed in his arms 6 months ago, came and sat with him a while. He was hesitant to tell me for fear I’ll think he was hallucinating. I assured him I think nothing of the sort.

 

[Raggedyman]

Thank you all for sharing. My son passed unexpectedly late July. While I didn’t have any contact with him, a friend did and passed on messages, things she had no way of knowing. It was very comforting. This friend has also let me know about my niece (passed 10 days before my son) and my mom (passed 4 years ago).

My husband is in his last months, maybe less, battling cancer. A few nights ago he told me our cat, one that had passed in his arms 6 months ago, came and sat with him a while. He was hesitant to tell me for fear I’ll think he was hallucinating. I assured him I think nothing of the sort.

MaryLu
first off - many thanks for sharing your experiences. your friend is obviously blessed with an incredible gift. does your husband know about her abilities? you may want to make arrangements for contact after he passes. praying that you be
blessed and for your husband as well as yourself and all who love him.

 

[MMWW]

I have had several experiences. I lost a boyfriend in a car wreck. I was miserable until he came to me in a dream about a month later. It was peaceful, just talking. The two most memorable things he said were "It's just like walking through a door," and "Find someone living to love." The night my father died, I was awake, at work, and saw a vision of just his head and shoulders hovering in front of me. A few days later I dreamed of him talking with a group of men and then them all getting on a train and leaving. When my husband was dying, he said he would come if he could. In the last few days, he saw visions, one a crystal boat, another of people coming up from some trees. I asked who and he said,"Can't tell." I had several comforting dreams of him after but no revelations. In one, we were in a car together, picking up his sister. In another he was at a resort-like place, everyone was young and fit and happy. The dreams stopped coming pretty quickly. None of these were scary.

 

[Raggedyman]

there are a couple of threads currently on the board with the topic of "HEAVEN" in their titles. one brought back me around to this excellent thread in particular:

What do you hope will be in heaven when you die?​

https://www.timebomb2000.com/xf/ind...e-in-heaven-when-you-die.616709/#post-9041049

a review of that thread prompted me to bump it to the top as well as this thread and its companion on the animal side here:

Tales from the rainbow bridge – evidence of our pets in the afterlife​

UNEX - Tales from the rainbow bridge – evidence of our pets in the afterlife

there are new members here who may not be aware of these great threads. there may be others here who have something to contribute to one or both of these threads. if that latter is you - the experiencer - PLEASE - post what you've experienced. you're in the position to offer much hope and comfort to people in times of sorrow and great loss.

the "RULES" for each of these threads are in the OP - please DO read them. they are in "UNEX" for a reason. they are NOT debates on your particular world view or religious point of view - they ARE places to share personal experiences which some find amazingly comforting at a time of great loss.

many thanks - RM