WTF?!? New York OK's Burying Human Ashes in Pet Cemeteries

Dennis Olson

Chief Curmudgeon
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New York OK's Burying Human Ashes in Pet Cemeteries

Published December 20, 2011 | Associated Press

HARTSDALE, N.Y.-- Life is good again — and death is looking better — for animal lovers in New York who want to be buried with their Persians, Pomeranians or potbellied pigs.

The state Division of Cemeteries has issued regulations that once again permit pet owners to have their ashes interred with their beloved animals in pet cemeteries.

"My wish has been granted and I will be able to be with my furry family forever," said Rhona

Levy of the Bronx, who has planned for years to have her ashes buried with her dog and four cats at the Hartsdale Pet Cemetery in the New York City suburbs.

"This was one of the best moments of my life," she added.

Under the new rules, approved Thursday in Albany, the interment of human ashes at pet cemeteries is permitted under certain conditions.

The pet cemetery must not advertise that it takes human ashes, and may not charge a fee for doing so. The cemetery also must tell customers who ask about human interment that they would be giving up some protections, such as mandatory record-keeping and restrictions on removal.

The 115-year-old Hartsdale cemetery has been adding human ashes to pet plots since 1925, and an estimated 700 people have joined the 70,000 animals there. But on Feb. 8, the cemetery division ordered a halt to the practice. Three days earlier, Hartsdale, 20 miles north of Manhattan, had been featured in an Associated Press story about the increase in human burials in pet cemeteries around the country.

The ban was issued statewide in April. The state said then that only not-for-profit corporations can take in human remains, even if cremated, and charging a fee violated not-for-profit law.

The state's declaration angered some animal lovers, especially those who had prearranged their burials at pet cemeteries.

"Suddenly I'm not at peace anymore," Levy said at the time.

Hartsdale asked the state for permission to at least accommodate those who had prepaid.

Taylor York, an attorney and law professor at Keuka College in Penn Yan, went further. She undertook to persuade the Cemetery Division that since pet cemeteries are private, they're not covered by nonprofit corporation law.

York's uncle, Thomas Ryan, had died in April. He had arranged — and prepaid — to join his wife and their two dogs, B.J. I and B.J. II, at Hartsdale. But the state ruling prevented that, and Ryan's ashes remained in a wooden box at the home of his sister, York's mother.

The Cemetery Division's new ruling means Ryan can finally be buried, and York said a ceremony is scheduled for Friday.

"This new compromise gets my mother what she wants and my uncle what he intended," she said.

"It's a Christmas gift of a kind, but this was agonizing and it's a real shame that the state leaped before they looked."

Just as the Hartsdale cemetery was the first to be told it couldn't accommodate humans, it's the first to get permission to resume the practice. The state and the cemetery signed a "Memorandum of Understanding" that permits the immediate burial of human ashes at Hartsdale. The cemetery resumed human interments Friday.

Ed Martin Jr., president and director of the Hartsdale Pet Cemetery, said Monday he has no qualms about the restrictions. He said the cemetery dropped the $235 fee it used to charge to open an animal's grave for its owner's ashes.

"It's not that it was a big moneymaker. It was a courtesy more than anything else," he said.

York said she took some satisfaction that during the meeting last week, Cemetery Board Chairman Dan Shapiro acknowledged using private property as a cemetery himself.

"I spread my uncle's ashes under a peach tree in my backyard," Shapiro said.
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Vicki

Girls With Guns Member
Well good, now I can legally join all the pets I've buried in my backyard for the last 30 years. Lucy, Rascal, Tobi, 2 newborn kittens and me! ;)
 

FarmerJohn

Has No Life - Lives on TB
It's nice to read an article about a state government authorizing an activity that is both common sense and cost free.

My sister snuck her dog Junie's remains into the human cemetery on Mt. Royale in Montréal where her own ashes would be buried later. None of the residents have complained.
 

geoffs

Veteran Member
People wanted to be burried with thier pets but the state wouldn't allow people to be burried in a pet cemetary soooo, now they comprimised by letting them bury their ashes with them.
 

Satanta

Stone Cold Crazy
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what about the wishes of the relatives?

What about the wishes of the pets?

What if Fifi really was hoping to eat their masters eyeballs before the neighbor got tired of their yapping and stomped them into a puddle out in the street?

Maybe the pet did not want to be cremated?

Anyone ask them?

Huh? Huh?
 

Dobbin

Faithful Steed
What about the wishes of the pets?

Kind of qualify here.

Here at the farm we have a human burial ground of the traditional colonial pattern. Vertical granite posts with iron rails connecting/enclosing the burial space. Inside are several gravestones of Owner's forebears, but none buried after perhaps 1840. Those departing since are buried in the town graveyard which is managed by a Town Cemetery Committee, and is directly behind the Church, perhaps two miles distant.

Rules that govern both municipal and private burial places in Cow Hampshire are seen at http://www.nhcemetery.org/content/state-laws

It would seem reading this that Owner, if he wished and got a permit ahead of time (or even after if someone else stepped up) could be buried in this private burial ground. I was surprised by this.

If that is the case perhaps I could be buried OUTSIDE this lot, and Owner might be buried INSIDE? Nearby even. I would like that.

Hmm. I don't usually like to send Owner an Email, but I might make an exception this time? I'm not sure how he would take it. He might consider it, or worse ME, as morbid?

Not a subject easily broached.

Joe
 
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