Raised Bed A cautionary tale of how I ruined my hair in the garden last year...long

Wildwood

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I've meant to post this thread ever since it happened and since I chopped off more of my hair today, I was motivated to share.

I will preface this by saying my hair is pretty curly and at the time it happened, about halfway down my back curled. Stretched out, it was probably only a few inches from my waste. We were adding soil to and ammending a 4' by 24' raised bed. I knew when I was through I'd be jumping in the shower because I was adding bone meal, blood meal and lime. The bone meal and lime were the very fine powder kind and the blood meal stinks to high heaven. I went ahead and brushed my hair out and loosely clipped it to the top of my head and put on my sun visor before I went outside. The plan was to get that bed done and go straight to the shower. There was a slight breeze off and on so it was tricky getting the stuff in the ground.

DH came along and as I like to say when one of the guys help, he put a little muscle into the project tossing soil in faster than I could spread it...the dirt in the bed had packed down a little so it needed more. I was up in the bed spreading it out. We got it all topped off and I applied all the ammendments and tilled them in with my little cultivator. The lime and bone meal blew around some because they are lighter than air unless you can find the granulated version. When that project was finished, DH offered to help me with more...I ended up getting in the shower about nine that night.

When I unclipped my hair, it didn't move. It felt like it had about a whole can of hair spray on it. I finally had to force it and cut it in a few places to get it down. There was no brushing it. I just got in the shower and the minute the water hit it, it smelled just like permanent solution...former hair dresser here and recognized that smell immediately. I washed and washed and ended up cutting about six inches off that night. I knew I'd end up having to cut the whole thing off but that was all I could stand to part with. It's been ten months and today I did my third big chopping off of my hair. It's a little longer than chin length now. My hair has probably grown about 6 inches since it happened. It still smelled like permed hair when I washed it today. Shock of all shocks, DH really likes it this length and wants me to keep it like this...I'm not so sure. I've worn it long for so long.

It was either the lime or bone meal that did it...I'm leaning toward the lime. It was a humid day and I have to use gel in my hair to control the curls. One or the other glued itself to that gel that had probably softened up in the humidity...it would do the same with hairspray. I will never use either of those in any form but granulated from now on...got a forty pound bag of granulated bone meal delivered last week. I think it's better anyway because it stays in the soil longer and releases slowly. I knew that but it is impossible buy it locally.
 
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Toosh

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OK, you have to explain this to me. How did this happen? How is lime to blame? What is the science behind this? I've never heard of such a thing. I'm completely intrigued and a little bit fearful - having long thick hair and a large garden!
 

Wildwood

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Hugs. I have waist length hair. I would end up crying. And my son, who's never seen me with short hair, would lose it.
Thank you. There were a few tears shed along the way. I'm conflicted since DH never voices an opinion about such things and is campaigning to keep the short.

OK, you have to explain this to me. How did this happen? How is lime to blame? What is the science behind this? I've never heard of such a thing. I'm completely intrigued and a little bit fearful - having long thick hair and a large garden!
I'm not sure I can explain it other than to tell you how a permanent works...I think it was the same process. Certain chemicals can penetrate the shaft of your hair and it softens and kind of slightly melts your hair. When you apply permanent solution, you rinse it at the apporpriate time and then put a neutralizer on it to stop the chemical process and since your hair is wrapped around a roller, it neutralizes in that position and you have curls.

I got a chemical or two applied to my hair and there was just enough moisture in the air to allow that chemical to stick to my hair and soften it. Had I washed it immediately, the damage would have been minor but it was left on my hair all day long and never neutralized. By that time, it was fried. The top layer of hair that got most of the exposure had melted together. Had it not been clipped up, I would have probably had to get it cut in a pixie or shaved my head..

I hope that makes sense. The aha moment came when it smelled like a permanent when the water hit it. All these years, I've thought that permanent smell came from the solution. I now realize, it's the smell of chemically burnt hair. Being a former hair dresser, I understand how it happened but I didn't see it coming.

Edited to add: Just don't use the fine powdered bone meal or lime and you should be fine. If you can't avoid it, cover your hair while you apply because it's so fine, it will go everywhere.
 
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Kathy in FL

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OMG. I can sit on my hair when it is down and that’s still shorter than I used to wear it. I used to be below my butt. But like everything else, as I’ve aged my hair has thinned. When I was so sick in June my hair really thinned out and with the wound it was just easier to trim it to my shoulder blades. I’ve let it get long again but it isn’t as thick as it used to be. Ugh. Still deciding what I want to do. Hubs has said he’ll support me one way or the other. Call me chicken but I’m just not emotionally ready to part with an identifying feature I’ve had my entire life.

I do understand though about the stuff in the garden getting stuck in hair products. One of our tenants is an elderly black woman that is all but bald and she explained that she never listened to her mother about covering her hair when she was in the field. The chemicals they used in the field reacted with stuff she used to keep her hair soft and straight and it wound up making her hair very brittle. Once that happens to black hair and some Spanish hair, it is very difficult to reverse the damage.
 

Wildwood

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OMG. I can sit on my hair when it is down and that’s still shorter than I used to wear it. I used to be below my butt. But like everything else, as I’ve aged my hair has thinned. When I was so sick in June my hair really thinned out and with the wound it was just easier to trim it to my shoulder blades. I’ve let it get long again but it isn’t as thick as it used to be. Ugh. Still deciding what I want to do. Hubs has said he’ll support me one way or the other. Call me chicken but I’m just not emotionally ready to part with an identifying feature I’ve had my entire life.

I do understand though about the stuff in the garden getting stuck in hair products. One of our tenants is an elderly black woman that is all but bald and she explained that she never listened to her mother about covering her hair when she was in the field. The chemicals they used in the field reacted with stuff she used to keep her hair soft and straight and it wound up making her hair very brittle. Once that happens to black hair and some Spanish hair, it is very difficult to reverse the damage.
I'm sorry you had to cut your hair. Mine got thinner with covid and it seemed to thicken back up eventually, at least a little while but this last virus I had put me back to square one and it's thinned out again.

Now that I've had almost a year to ponder all this, I can easily see how that happened to your tenant. That is a much easier explanation of the whole thing.
 

Wildwood

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Oh, and thanks for the heads up. My hair has been thinning. And I'm going to be building new garden beds this year. I'll make sure to cover my hair with a bandana.
That is why I posted this. Honestly, it's such an emotional thing, I didn't want to have to talk about it so I kept putting it off but we are so close to gardening season and I felt an obligation to try and help someone else avoid this. Had I covered my head, I'd still have my long hair. If I'd gone ahead and washed it right away, I may have had a tiny bit of damage but would have never put two and two together.

Now my DH loves it short so I know I'm going to want to please him. He hardly ever expresses an opinion about anything and he's the one who wanted me to grow it back out all those years ago, I bet he told me three times tonight how much he likes it. I probably won't ever have long hair again...bittersweet.
 
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